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REFLECTION

Posted: March 30, 2014 in Uncategorized

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Many people these days forget who they really are, including me. Once, I forgot my value, I forgot who I was and I forgot what am I capable of. Sometimes we become someone else’s inner devil because of so called self discrimination. We lack self control and trust to our own flair that we turn out to be a copier or a doppelganger. Why do people get jealous to someone who’s happy and contented with who they are? This one advice stated by a great man I know was the best advice I’ve ever heard and his words, I will always remember.

A famous person once said, “You doubt yourself too much, don’t run away from who you are” and from that I have learned that being envious to someone isn’t a good thing at all. I tried to look at the mirror and see my reflection, only then I find out what he was telling me. Trying to copy them or even pretend to be like them is like trying to forget how special you are on your own ways. God has made each one of us unique so that we don’t have to be anybody else. God made us not exactly the same with each other because he would want us to realize that all of us have our own worth and flair. We could be better but not greater to somebody else. Each of us is equal because we don’t have anything in common to compare. God would want us to learn to love and not to hate, he would want us to fill up someone’s missing pieces and he would want us to understand each others’ imperfections. This was the most valuable lesson I’ve ever learned from this advice, to love yourself and not to be resentful.

The great man was correct, indeed. I doubt myself too much that I wasn’t able to see all the beautiful things I could achieve with my own struggling. Since then, I applied his wisdom. Through the years that had past I have loved and understand myself better than anybody else. What you think of yourself is what you are becoming, so don’t ever think you are no better than everybody else because you are.

For what is worth.

Posted: January 21, 2013 in Uncategorized

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If you love a girl, you would make sure that she feels loved. You’d make sure she feel safe when she’s with you. You’ll make her feel like she’s the happiest girl in the world and you’ll make her feel that she’s important, that she’s pretty even with messy hair. You should make her feel like she definitely do not need to compare herself with others and will never think envious. If you love a girl you’ll never make her feel alone, you’ll never make her feel forlorn or even make her cry because of regrets. If you love a girl you should take her to the places where she felt like she’s on the top of the world, in places where she felt like a princess with a white horse and a soldier, where she could be herself and she can speak her mind without hesitations and doubts. That’s how you love a girl treat her like she’s worth all the risk and sacrifices. <3